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Your relationship

It's good for your baby when their parents get on well. Even very young children feel it when their mum and dad get on well and are in this together. Showing that you appreciate your partner not only strengthens your relationship, but helps the baby feel secure and safe. And that's important for their developing brain.

If you have disagreements (everyone does), or even if you are not together with your partner, it's important that both of you talk to and treat each other with respect.

 

One way of showing your affection for your partner are random acts of kindness. Being kind to your partner can make you feel good, too. Being kind might mean:

  • Telling your partner that they are doing a good job

  • Telling your partner what you appreciate and admire about them

  • Noticing and congratulating them on what they are doing well

  • Arranging little ways that you can have fun together

  • Inexpensive gifts or treats fir her can make your partner feel appreciated

 

Being kind to your partner is important for the whole family. Having a positive relationship with your partner is not just about the two of you, it’s good for your baby, no matter how young they are. Your relationship is a very big part of your baby’s environment. A New Zealand study found that if the parents felt warmth for each other, their children were unlikely to suffer the developmental effects of serious trauma during their childhood. Maintaining as positive as possible atmosphere at home is one way of giving your baby what they need to thrive.

Talking things through

Things that weren’t important in the past might become points of conflict. The way you get through all of this is by talking things through - and compromising when you need to. Keeping silent can lead to one or both of you feeling resentful. Talk together.

 

"Women can’t hear what men don’t say" – Warren Farrell

Communicating is as much about listening as it is about talking. Hearing what is going on for her is important. Explaining what’s going on for you is important. This is not arguing or about scoring points. It’s about understanding how things are for each of you. If you are communicating well, it helps you be on the same page. It can help close any gap that may open up if either or both of you has too much to do and you are overworked.  

 

Couples strengthen their relationship by listening to each other. New parents’ lives are constantly changing and talking things through as you go will help you make the adjustments you need to make.

Why Great Fathers

Dads who learn to understand their babies and toddlers and show that they love and respect them - help their little ones to thrive.

Becoming a father is big for every man. You hold your child's future is in your hands! It's a big responsibility and a huge opportunity.

Every child needs - and deserves - a great father. This website will help you be the dad your child needs you to be.

 

Raising a baby is complex. But you don't need extraordinary skills to be a good dad. After all is said and done, it's  men like you who make great  fathers".

Acknowledging the generous support of…

Toi Foundation

New Plymouth District Council

Lotteries Community

Uprise (digital marketing)

We would like to acknowledge the Todd Foundation for their many early years of trusting support.

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